The Side-Talker

A second, private conversation runs alongside yours and splits the room's attention. Usually it's boredom, or a point they never got to make out loud. Proximity and a well-placed pause end it faster than calling anyone out.

Say this — right now

Stand near them, pause, or say "Let's bring that conversation to the group."

Word for word is fine. The room won't know.

Work the move

01Physical proximity often stops it
02Pause and make eye contact
03Invite them to share with the group
04If valuable, formally add to agenda

Next time —

Set seating to minimize side conversations

Still in your hand

The Dominator

One person monopolizing discussion

The Silent One

Participant hasn't spoken

The Naysayer

Constant negative pushback

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How the cards work

Recognize the moment

Each card is triggered by a specific challenge you're watching unfold in the room — a silence, a dominator, a stalled decision.

Pull the move

Each card gives you an exact phrase to say, plus detailed tips and a prevention strategy for next time.

Take action

Use the quick response on the spot, or choose an alternative that fits your room. Back on track in seconds.