When this is the room
Private conversations disrupting
The Side-Talker
A second, private conversation runs alongside yours and splits the room's attention. Usually it's boredom, or a point they never got to make out loud. Proximity and a well-placed pause end it faster than calling anyone out.
Say this — right now
Stand near them, pause, or say "Let's bring that conversation to the group."
Word for word is fine. The room won't know.
Work the move
- 01Physical proximity often stops it
- 02Pause and make eye contact
- 03Invite them to share with the group
- 04If valuable, formally add to agenda
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