The Silent One

Someone hasn't said a word all session. It's rarely disinterest. Usually it's nerves, a slower processing style, or a room that never felt safe enough to speak up in. Lower the stakes before you put them on the spot.

Say this — right now

Try pair-share first, then report out. Or use written responses before discussion.

Word for word is fine. The room won't know.

Work the move

01Use sticky notes for anonymous input
02Create small group discussions first
03Ask directly but gently during breaks
04Provide questions in advance

Next time —

Start with low-risk icebreakers to build comfort

Still in your hand

The Dominator

One person monopolizing discussion

The Naysayer

Constant negative pushback

The Side-Talker

Private conversations disrupting

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How the cards work

Recognize the moment

Each card is triggered by a specific challenge you're watching unfold in the room — a silence, a dominator, a stalled decision.

Pull the move

Each card gives you an exact phrase to say, plus detailed tips and a prevention strategy for next time.

Take action

Use the quick response on the spot, or choose an alternative that fits your room. Back on track in seconds.